Girl Daze

Chit Chat & Bridal Showers

Trigger Warning: Autumn and I do talk about SA and weight loss at the beginning of this episode. If you're sensitive to these subjects, please skip this episode and we'll see you next week.
 
If you like a long weekly catch up, this episode is for you! We have been LIVING, and not all of it good. lol We take you along the ride of our week and dive into my bridal shower. Listen for tips when planning a Bridal shower, what is a must have, and what you can pass on. 
 
 

To Have Babies or To Not Have Babies

As we enter into our 30's, you would think we would know if we want kids... But this is Autumn and me you're talking about. With such a HUGE decision facing us within the next several years, we dive into this heavy topic. 
Somethings mentioned in this weeks episode :
Article - on vox.com "I help people decide if they want to have kids. Here’s my advice." by Ann Davidman 
Book - Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help You Find--and Keep--Love by Amir Levine M.D. AND Rachel S.F. Heller M.A. 
Book - Olive by Emma Gannon 
 

Making Your Apartment/ House a Home, Advice From Serial Movers

On today's episode Autumn and I give our best advice for turning your space into your own personal sanctuary. Clean girl aesthetic is out and eclectic hoarder is in! 
What says "your home" more than a visit from your favorite ghost! And no, I'm not talking about your ex. A literal spirit made itself known on this episode. Although most of the knocking, falling books, and spookiness did not make the cut, we still share a little bit of our personal ghosts stories. 
If you're not here for the weekly recap, skip to minute 20, that's when we really get into our subject. 
We hope you enjoy this week's episode and you'll hear from us next week! 

Becoming Ski Girlies?? Zesty Feet, Planets Aligning, Not Changing My Last Name

Let's Chat it UP! Who knew starting a new sport in your 30's would be so hard?? Is Autumn right? Do I just need a ski instructor? But should I be taking life advice from someone who zests their feet?? These are the questions we'll get answered in today's episode. 
 
 

Self-Love v.s Self-Care, The Consumerism of It All, But First Let's Catch Up and Chit Chat About Valentine's Day, My Wedding, & Some of My Most Embarrassing Stories

Today's Episode starts out with a little bit of a ramble; plane anxieties, wedding planning, valentine's day outcomes, and wtf is a scallop! If you want to skip all that fun the self-love v.s. self-care conversation starts 35 minutes into the podcast. 
 
With self-love and self-care being such buzzy words, have we lost the true meaning of them? Is self-love the same thing as self-care? This weeks episode Autumn and I dive into the self-love world describing what it means to us and how we implement in into our lives. In the end, maybe truly loving ourselves is to share and laugh at our most embarrassing memories.

Dating & Relationships In Our 20's

Officially out of our 20's, we thought it would be fun to share stories of failed relationships and ones that stand the test of time. 
Autumn and I lived completely different lives in our 20's. She was/is married. Autumn gives perspective on what makes a marriage last while changing and evolving every day. 
My 20's led me to a completely different reality. Dating, long term relationships, situationships, breaking hearts, my heart breaking. In the end I found out what I loved most about my past relationships was me, the way I treated others, the way I loved, the way I could laugh at almost anything. And in the end I finished out a decade in a relationship that would lead to an engagement. 
Disclaimer: 
THESE ARE TRUE STORIES.
The events described in this podcast took place.
At the request of the survivors the names have been changed.
Out of respect for the ex's, the rest has been told exactly as it occurred.

Introducing Garson! Pet Roadrunner, Changing Your Own Brakes, Relationships w/ Differing Political Beliefs, Coming Together, Putting Love Fist

Autumn got a pet fish!! Now, that's one lucky fish!! Julia's Dad talks to wild animals and surprisingly, or not so surprisingly, they talk back! 
Loving your neighbor, or in this case, your husband when you have different political beliefs. Is it possible? And how do you navigate core values and political values? Are they the same? 
Grab a cup of coffee, sit down, and catch up with us! 

Finding My Wedding Dress, Being a Bridesmaid, Technical Difficulties, American Prison Rats, Not Giving Your Happiness Away

It has been a journey finding my wedding dress. Spoiler Alert!! I found my dress!! But not without a ton of drama and emotion. 
Some dress shops mentioned in this episode: 
Brides for a Cause - "Brides for a Cause is a nonprofit organization that collects and resells wedding dresses to raise funds for charity."  Honestly, would recommend this to any bride who has time to thrift. The dresses were in great shape, came in a HUGE range of sizes and were beautiful. When I said "all the dresses were ugly", I meant it in the way when you're thrifting and you can't find anything in your style or size. 
The Dress Theory Bridal Shop - Upscale shopping experience, beautiful dresses, amazing staff, on the pricer side. 
Anthropologie Long Beach - The customer experience is top tier!! The girls that work there go above and beyond! Dresses are beautiful, and if in stock, will get to you in five days. 
Seamstress- Larysa's Alterations, Located in San Diego
Today's episode has a little bit of everything. Including our equipment dying on us four times. In the past this would make me trash the episode, but staying consistent means working with what you have. 
Hope you enjoy this episode :) 

I'm Engaged!!

2024 Wrapped! Julia's engaged, Autumn's on Ozempic. Committing to you and our podcast in 2025. 

Girl's Trips Are The Best Trips

🎉 Episode: Girls' Trip Galore: Why Every Woman Needs a Getaway with Her Besties 🎉
Ready to escape the daily grind and make memories that will last a lifetime? Join hosts Julia and Autumn on a virtual girls' trip extravaganza as they passionately advocate for the transformative power of female friendships and the magic of getaway adventures.
🌴 Unlocking the Power of Sisterhood 🌴
In this episode, Julia and Autumn delve into the invaluable role of female friendships in women's lives. From providing unwavering support to sharing in life's triumphs and tribulations, your besties are your ultimate cheerleaders and confidantes. Discover why nurturing these relationships is essential for your mental and emotional well-being.
🚗 Pack Your Bags: The Girls' Trip Advantage 🚗
Thinking about planning a girls' trip but not sure where to start? Julia and Autumn share their top tips and tricks for orchestrating the perfect getaway with your besties. From choosing the ideal destination to budget-friendly hacks and itinerary must-haves, get ready to turn your dream girls' trip into a reality.
🎨 Crafting Unforgettable Memories 🎨
Whether you're lounging on a tropical beach, exploring a bustling city, or embarking on a scenic road trip, the experiences you share with your best friends are priceless. Julia and Autumn reminisce about their own adventures and highlight the joy, laughter, and bonding moments that make girls' trips truly special.
💃 Seize the Day: Why Now is the Perfect Time 💃
No more waiting for the "perfect" moment – seize the opportunity to plan your girls' trip today! Julia and Autumn discuss the importance of prioritizing self-care and adventure. Embrace spontaneity, step out of your comfort zone, and create memories that will last a lifetime.
🌟 Ready, Set, Girls' Trip! 🌟
Feeling inspired to grab your squad and hit the road? Tune in to "Girl Daze" for a dose of encouragement, empowerment, and endless wanderlust. Don't forget to subscribe for more tips, inspiration, and girl talk galore!